Anal Sex: giving him anal pleasures

Giving a man anal sex is the same as giving a woman anal sex. Now if you are a woman wanting to give a man anal sex then a strap on or a dildo is a good idea to use. I suggest that you start slowly. Talk to your partner. Find out if he is into more deep ass play. And if he is, then let the fun times roll.

You shouldn’t go directly to full out anal sex. Foreplay is crucial. Kiss your partner. Kiss his ass, stroke it gently, use your tongue and fingers. Set the mood to be just right. For the first couple of times you and your lover could try out a butt plug. The purpose of the butt plug is to stimulate the anus without the in and out movement. Take care and use a butt plug bought from a sex store. Make sure that the butt plug has a big base ring or stopper so that it doesn’t slip inside your lover’s ass. Going to the hospital with something suck up your butt isn’t a pleasant experience. Also lube is a must when it comes to anal sex. The more lube the better the anal sex experience is. The rule of thumb is lube it all. When it comes to picking out lube for anal sex you should follow the general rule: the greasier the lube is the better. Pick a lube that doesn’t get absorbed quickly by the skin. The butt has no natural lubrication glands so if the lube get’s absorbed then a reapplication of lube must be made. If not the anal sex experience won’t be all that pleasurable and your partner won’t come back for seconds. Also make sure that the type of lube that you have selected works well with the sex toy that you have bought. You could always ask the sex toys store clerk.

I highly recommend that you lover accompanies you to the sex toy store. That way he can be an active participant in selecting the anal sex toys. The size of the sex toys will be the right one and the general shape and also. Keep in mind that there are high tech sex toy that can vibrate, move and wiggle. For the strap on I recommend buying one that fits you just right. The strap on shouldn’t move around, and be loose when fitted on you. It shouldn’t be too tight also. Pick one that you think is a comfortable fit. The part that get’s inserted into the ass should be as flexible as possible being at the same time rigid. It has to be able to follow the natural shape of the butt and not hurt it. If you can find one that stimulates your genital area also, buy that one. Double the pleasure, and triple the sex fun.

When it comes to sexually inserting things into someone’s butt you have to be delicate. Take it easy. There is no hurry. Go in slowly, take your time. Let the sphincter open up to your loving caresses. Do not force him. The anal muscles are involuntary for the most part. So relax your partner, massage him. Foreplay before anal sex is God send, making the whole experience more pleasurable. Do not ram the whole sex toy in the ass, push it slowly. Take it out. Tease your lover. Make him crave full frontal anal sex. Make him beg for it. Then let him have it. He will be in carnal heaven. Remember the lube, always lube.

Have fun exploring the carnal pleasures that the ass has in store for us, and write in the comments below how it went. Come to the fun side of life, the erotic sex life.