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The tasty wet pussy

Raw.Andrew — 2008-07-16T22:37:04+00:00

Question: “Wet pussy is very testy for me. Why?”

Well there can be two reasons, that I can think of. The first one is a psychological one, and the second one is the lucky factor. The psychological reason can be something like the Pavlov’s Dog syndrome. The taste of the wet pussy got associated in your mind with the sensation of pleasure, making you seek out tasty pussy. This is the same as having a favorite dish. You like eating that dish because a pleasurable feeling got attached to it. For example you are feeling good and you eat a good dish, and the brain goes:” If I eat X them I feel fantastic. So eat more X to feel more fantastic.” How this could happen to eating pussy is pretty easy. Sex is a highly pleasurable experience. Or it should be so. This phenomenon happens especially in the areas of your life in which belief systems haven’t fully formed yet, so you have no preconceived idea about how it should be.

The lucky factor consists in the fact that you are the luckiest man alive. The taste of a pussy can be influenced by the diet that the woman has. If your sexy lover has a balanced diet, avoiding things like garlic, onion, salty foods, saturated fats( fried chips, fast food) and highly sugary foods. Basically a woman has to keep a diet if she wants to taste as yummier as possible. But the same thing applies to you too. Bottom line: if you eat right, you taste fantastic. So the lucky factor says that you had the rotten luck of making love only with women who are sexual masters. You lucky dog.

If you have any more thoughts and ideas on the subject write them in the comments below. I am looking forward to reading them. Come to the fun side of life, the erotic sex life.

How to fuck for a long time - Tips & Tricks

Raw.Andrew — 2008-07-16T22:27:10+00:00

Question: “I want to fuck for a long time. How it is possible”

Long time fucking is achievable. I have but one question in my mind. What is a long time for you? Do you want to fuck for 1 hour, several hours, the whole night or all day long. What performance are you looking to achieve? There isn’t a certain limit for how much love you can make and how long you can fuck. All is in your mind. So first take some time and set a sex goal. Answer the question: “How long do you want to fuck?” The answer is your goal. Now that you have the desired sex time, you have your goal. This is the first step to achieving the sexual performance that you want in bed.

If you want to fuck for a long time then you have to become a sexual athlete. You have to train your body. You have to train your mind. And the most important thing: you have to make your mind and body cooperate, and fuck as one. Get in shape. Hit the gym, start eating right. If your body is in peak performance then you have a better chance to resist all night long. If you are getting fatigue and lack of breath during sex, before the orgasm, then you should get in shape. Cut down on the smoking and drinking. Eat healthier food. You should try out more fruits and vegetable. Besides fruits and vegetables are fun in bed too. You could serve them off your hot sexy lady erotically.

When it comes to ruling your mind there is one key point. Stop being all in your head, all the fucking time. Notice your lover when making love. Admire her, touch her sexy skin. Relish the experience. Don’t focus just on your pleasure. Focus on her also, give her the same amount of pleasure that you are getting. In fact make sure that she gets all the pleasure that she deserves. Stop focusing on the sensations in your body. Start noticing how much pleasure your sexy lover is having during making love. Then brainstorm and think of all the ways you could skyrocket her ecstasy. Be inventive in bed. Try different thing. You are going to find out pretty fast if what you are doing is bringing her closer to peaks of delicious pleasure or not. This way monotony goes out the door.

Masturbating a couple of hours before making love can be a great way to prolong the fucking time. The short time benefit is the fact that the depletion of sperm makes it so that you have a temporary sexual stamina increase. The best of the long time benefits is the fact that you could study your body’s reactions just before having an orgasm. That way you can sense when you are about to burst with pleasure. All you have to do is stop. Don’t just stop, and lay there like a piece of meat. Sensually kiss your lover, stroke all her hot body and whisper sexy and erotic words. Then, when you are good to go, go full frontal and continue the deep sensual and sexual experience.

If your desire for longer fucks is flamed by the wish to make your lover cum more deeply and rapidly, and have more orgasms then you should read about the continuous orgasm.

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Anal Sex: giving him anal pleasures

Raw.Andrew — 2008-07-12T16:46:23+00:00

Question: I want to learn how to use a rubber penis that you strap on and insert slowly into a man’s ass. I want to give him anal sex. It is new for me to give a man anal sex, but I have always wanted to do this. I get pleasure in using my tongue and finger.

Giving a man anal sex is the same as giving a woman anal sex. Now if you are a woman wanting to give a man anal sex then a strap on or a dildo is a good idea to use. I suggest that you start slowly. Talk to your partner. Find out if he is into more deep ass play. And if he is, then let the fun times roll.

You shouldn’t go directly to full out anal sex. Foreplay is crucial. Kiss your partner. Kiss his ass, stroke it gently, use your tongue and fingers. Set the mood to be just right. For the first couple of times you and your lover could try out a butt plug. The purpose of the butt plug is to stimulate the anus without the in and out movement. Take care and use a butt plug bought from a sex store. Make sure that the butt plug has a big base ring or stopper so that it doesn’t slip inside your lover’s ass. Going to the hospital with something suck up your butt isn’t a pleasant experience. Also lube is a must when it comes to anal sex. The more lube the better the anal sex experience is. The rule of thumb is lube it all. When it comes to picking out lube for anal sex you should follow the general rule: the greasier the lube is the better. Pick a lube that doesn’t get absorbed quickly by the skin. The butt has no natural lubrication glands so if the lube get’s absorbed then a reapplication of lube must be made. If not the anal sex experience won’t be all that pleasurable and your partner won’t come back for seconds. Also make sure that the type of lube that you have selected works well with the sex toy that you have bought. You could always ask the sex toys store clerk.

I highly recommend that you lover accompanies you to the sex toy store. That way he can be an active participant in selecting the anal sex toys. The size of the sex toys will be the right one and the general shape and also. Keep in mind that there are high tech sex toy that can vibrate, move and wiggle. For the strap on I recommend buying one that fits you just right. The strap on shouldn’t move around, and be loose when fitted on you. It shouldn’t be too tight also. Pick one that you think is a comfortable fit. The part that get’s inserted into the ass should be as flexible as possible being at the same time rigid. It has to be able to follow the natural shape of the butt and not hurt it. If you can find one that stimulates your genital area also, buy that one. Double the pleasure, and triple the sex fun.

When it comes to sexually inserting things into someone’s butt you have to be delicate. Take it easy. There is no hurry. Go in slowly, take your time. Let the sphincter open up to your loving caresses. Do not force him. The anal muscles are involuntary for the most part. So relax your partner, massage him. Foreplay before anal sex is God send, making the whole experience more pleasurable. Do not ram the whole sex toy in the ass, push it slowly. Take it out. Tease your lover. Make him crave full frontal anal sex. Make him beg for it. Then let him have it. He will be in carnal heaven. Remember the lube, always lube.

Have fun exploring the carnal pleasures that the ass has in store for us, and write in the comments below how it went. Come to the fun side of life, the erotic sex life.

How to spice up your sex life

Raw.Andrew — 2008-07-11T11:22:36+00:00

Question: How do I spice things up between me and my man to make it more exciting and more often?

          Now this is a fantastic sexy question. I want to start off by congratulating you for your sexy interest. You are 1 in a million. For sure your man is one of the luckiest alive.
          Spicing things up. Bringing more excitement. It is so easy. The key is going first. Yeap, it is that easy. All you have to do is to go first. Get yourself into a sexy erotic state. Exude lust and desire from every fiber of your soul and your loved one will pick up your internal sexual desires. Attitudes are contagious. So make sure your lover catches the right ones. Most women start getting frustrated with their lover if he doesn’t do what they expect. And the lover will pick up the frustration and start doing even less of what he was doing right. The woman will get even more frustrated and the man will do even less. A vicious circle is created that way, leading to an unfulfilling relationship.
          If you are waiting for your sexy man thinking how exhausted he will be when you meet. Thinking that he won’t be in the mood, that he won’t take you out, that he is just going to sit and do the same boring old routine then you are right. The moment he will see you he is going to get influenced into that direction. Even if he was into a good and horny mood, that will go away into a flash. That is even truer if you tell him: “I bet you are so tired that you don’t want to do anything.” Well that is a dumb thing to say to your partner if you are looking for more excitement. But there’s good news, you can change the outcome because you are the sole person responsible for it. Your lover is just obeying your orders and desires. He is submissive, getting the mood that you inspire in him. Now take a moment and think: wow my lover is doing what I want. I can have the sex life I have always dreamed of. All I have to do is go towards it. Oh my God the possibilities are endless. Carnal pleasures here I come.
        Imagine waiting for your loved one all excited, with a burning desire so great that you are wondering how comes that the house isn’t catching fire. Wear some sexy lingerie, listen to some erotic sexy music, create a sex prone atmosphere. Your man will go wild with lust and desire. He will ravage you the second he will lay his eyes on your sexy, lust filled, body. Get into that sexually charged mood, be sexy all the time.
          The best way to keep the fire of desire burning with the intensity if a hundred suns is by flirting. Flirting opens the gateway to better and better sex, more exciting adventures and a lot of pleasant memories to go by in the winter of your life. Flirting is the way to sex. You have to flirt to have sex the first time with an erotic partner. Logic would suggest that more flirting will bring even more sex with the same lover. Unfortunately most people do not think that way. The general perception is that flirting is a chore, and the faster you can get it over the better. Well my message is the faster you get flirting over the faster the sexy sex experiences stop. The only reason for which flirting is a chore is because people do not take the time to master it. Flirting is a skill, and like every skill you have to learn it. Too bad there aren’t any flirting schools. But if you are having a partner then you have the perfect person to start flirting with. In fact flirting with your lover is highly recommended. You shouldn’t think should I flirt now or shouldn’t I. Flirting is the rule, not flirting being the exception. Always flirt.
       Men in general are bad flirts. You as a woman have to teach you lover how to flirt. But first you have to learn. You have to go first. And he will learn by example. Flirting is a hugely rewarding activity. From a business point of view it is the sole activity that brings the best return on investment. The more you flirt the more you get back. And what you get back will blow your mind with pleasure. Flirting is the way to the good sexual life.
      Maybe you are a little worried about being able to get into a sexy mood. Maybe you haven’t done it in a long time. So I am going to give you a tool to help you out. Take a moment and remember a time when you felt sexy, irresistible and filled with sexual desire. Remember now what you saw, what you heard and what you smelled. Now locate that sexy, irresistible and desirable feeling. Where is it? Feel it. Fell the direction of that sexy feeling’s movement. How does it move? Is the feeling spinning in any direction? If it doesn’t spin in any direction start spinning it in the direction that feels the best. That makes you feel even sexier, more irresistible. Spin that sexy feeling. Spin it faster. Get excited. Spin it even faster. Let the feeling grow and spin it. Spin it and grow it until you feel the urge to rip the clothes off your lover if he was present. Spin it faster and faster until you cannot take the burning desire. Go look at yourself into a mirror. Are you looking irresistible? What do you think your lover will do when he will see you in this sexy erotic state.
        As a fun experiment you could try and throw that sexy, irresistible, desire filled feeling into your lover when you see him, and spinning it all or just a part of it through your sexy lover. Let him have it. You can do this anywhere, anytime. See the sexy impact that this makes on him. Does he behave different? Will he rock your erotic sex boat like never before. Well you will have to try it to find out. All you have to do is go first and have the time of your life. Go into the sexy, irresistible and desire filled state as often as possible. With time you should be able to go into that mood in a moment’s notice, living, eating, breathing the best of the world’s pleasures.
      This advice can be used by intelligent men also, if they want to spice up their sex life, and turn the page to a new chapter in sexual fulfillment.
          I would really appreciate if you would write in the comments below the experiences that you had going into the sexy, irresistible, desire filled mood. How did you feel? What was different? How about your partner?
      See you on the other side of life, the erotic sex side of life.