Couples eroticism – listening to your partner is sexy

    “Honey... how was your day? Oh, that bad... don’t worry baby, I’ll make us a nice cup of hot coffee and you can tell me all about it, and after that I’ve got a surprise for you”. How’s that for a nice welcome home. So what if your partner had a bad day, that doesn’t mean you should avoid the subject. It all depends on your conversation opener. Open your eyes when your partner comes home. If they have a long face, or look as if the weight of the world is on their shoulders, then be patient. Wait a while, let them tell you what’s the matter. Act natural, as if you didn’t notice and invite them into the kitchen first, let them sit down or go to the bathroom, just be patient. If after a while nothing happens, or they don’t say anything then initiate the conversation. ”Honey... how was your day? You look like you need a cup of coffee and a hot shower.” There... short, thoughtful and most important you didn’t nag them, even if you had only the best intent in mind. Now comes the most important part of all. When you partner talks about their day, you LISTEN. Don’t just hear them out, listen, be quite, pay attention, let them do all the talking, and only after they finished you can say: “poor baby, you had a pretty rough day ... I was right, you do need that shower, come on, I have a surprise for you” Then lead them into the shower, fix their water and say “I’ll go get the towels” and when you come back, step in and shower together. Be thoughtful, offer to wash their back, and when their nice and clean, and more relaxed, just turn them around, and give them the oral they dreamed all day at work. That should relax them nice and good.

    I guarantee, that unless their problems were really serious, they’ll relax and shift their mood from a crummy state, to a feeling of comfort, and care. Just wait and see, after the shower, when you go into the bedroom, they’ll “pay you back” plus interest.